To those still looking. Thank you, this is refreshing.
Most of the women were very much like the "alternet" article, above. The fact that I get dozens of messages from completely unsuitable men does not mean I am ignoring "nice guys". I have to be convinced that I am falling in love with a woman, or could do so, before I am willing to fall into bed with her. I can make sure you are kept well dressed and have all the latest handbags. It's not easy for anybody, unless you look like Brad Pitt. I only hope to give my viewpoint to perhaps shed some light however dim, LOL on the incorrect, ill-advised thoughts and information that men make about women vs.