It could also be that you sound very shallow and contradict yourself with what you want.
One very good reason many middle aged men are cynical and jaded about relationships is the financial ruin that many go through after their partner files for divorce. There are days I hate being single and days I love it. Then he gave me a weight problem and a metabolism that makes it impossible for me to lose any weight and somehow, maybe become even a tiny bit attractive to women. Niceness gets me laid…. I met someone that I rode to school with. If you are too enthusiastic and imaginative, be careful as your mind is fertile. I think my culture has a lot to do with why I am single.