A lot of the sort of change discussed in the previous paragraph is hard to implement in one human lifetime.
This article feels very patronizing, and antiquated. Introspection is a lot of work. Posted by Julia on February 23, at 5: That being said, the person who changes their value system which takes a lot of time has a responsibility to themselves and their partner to be an adult about it: I have since vowed to never let it happen again. Nowadays, the pressure is on to find a man because of age, a shortage of good men, and our careers.